Your body is your life partner, not your life’s project.
The anti-aging and diet/wellness industries have scammed us into believing that thinner and younger is always better-that there’s a “right” way to eat and move to age “well”. But that’s a lie-and it’s doing real harm.
When Deb Benfield, a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist, turned 60, she went looking for guidance on how to care for her changing body. What she found was the same tired and disempowering narrative centering on controlling weight-a goal that puts us at war with our bodies right when we most need to feel at home in them.
Unapologetic Aging gently unravels the toxic messages of anti-aging and diet culture, helping you let go of rigid rules and tune into what truly nourishes and delights you. When you stop fighting your body, you make room for vitality, self-trust, and joy.
Midlife and beyond isn’t a crisis to manage-though it may feel like one sometimes. It’s a powerful unfolding. Not a time to shrink or submit to yet more rules, but a time to rise into your fullest self. You can age with confidence, ease, and deep self-respect. Unapologetically.
The anti-aging and diet/wellness industries have scammed us into believing that thinner and younger is always better-that there’s a “right” way to eat and move to age “well”. But that’s a lie-and it’s doing real harm.
When Deb Benfield, a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist, turned 60, she went looking for guidance on how to care for her changing body. What she found was the same tired and disempowering narrative centering on controlling weight-a goal that puts us at war with our bodies right when we most need to feel at home in them.
Unapologetic Aging gently unravels the toxic messages of anti-aging and diet culture, helping you let go of rigid rules and tune into what truly nourishes and delights you. When you stop fighting your body, you make room for vitality, self-trust, and joy.
Midlife and beyond isn’t a crisis to manage-though it may feel like one sometimes. It’s a powerful unfolding. Not a time to shrink or submit to yet more rules, but a time to rise into your fullest self. You can age with confidence, ease, and deep self-respect. Unapologetically.
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This is a book we have all been waiting for. Have you been bombarded with ads for every anti-aging product and diet now that you're a person of a certain age? Instead of anti-aging (which is actually not possible), Deb Benfield brings us Unapologetic Aging. She shares from her decades of clinical experience a hopeful view of our relationship with our aging bodies -- one where, instead of chasing endless unrealistic expectations (fueled by capitalism), we embrace our most authentic selves. What a different world it would be if we honored and cared for our bodies as we age instead of demeaning or restricting them. If you struggle to be unapologetic in your aging (and it's hard not to in this culture), you must read this book. Then, please buy one for all of your friends. We change this ageist culture with ripples of understanding and compassion. Let's change the conversations around growing older and get wiser together. This book is a brilliant invitation to embrace body liberation and joy, at any age.
Unapologetic Aging is an invitation to anyone ready to break free from the false promises of anti-aging culture and reclaim their relationship with their body. With compassion and clarity, Debra Benfield offers practical guidance toward true self-acceptance and a path to aging with confidence. She reminds us that at every stage of life, you are not diminishing-you are becoming more fully yourself.
Unapologetically Aging is a brilliant resource for women as we consider our relationship with food, our bodies, our unique histories, and our desired futures. I loved the stories, the practical prompts, and the compassionate and wise guidance. Incredible!
Unapologetically Aging is a must-read for any woman who wants to understand and to revise her body story - a gift that women desperately need today Think of all the women you know who yearn to make peace with their bodies - I have a long list of my own. My recommendation - get it (for yourself!) and give it (to all those other women too!). We could change our world and our bodies would thank us! It's never too late.
As a therapist who specializes in eating disorders and body image, I struggle to find books and resources in/for midlife and beyond that align with my values of living and practicing from a non-diet approach. Unapologetically Aging is exactly what I've been looking for! It's the antidote we need to cultivate a peaceful relationship with our bodies at this stage of life. It's a guide to learn how to care for our bodies as we age free of the narrative we're sold about our bodies being wrong and needing to be changed.